Why Your Dream May Never Come True
Published on Thursday, December 29th, 2011 at 7:32 pm and is filed under Psychology Tips
The New Year’s Eve is closer and closer – the night when you can make a wish. Unfortunately not all dreams come true. What does it happen? Perhaps you do mistakes because of which your goals are farther and farther from you.
Here are six reasons for which your dream can never become true:
Your dream is not clearly defined
What is your dream? Do you want to be successful? What way? Do you think to try yourself in literature? What genre are you going to write? The more are specifically your dreams the more clearly will be ways to achieve them.
You don’t know your capacities
Many people set too small goals because they underestimate themselves. Don’t be afraid to dream wide. You will never discover your true ability if you ever settle for less. You are much stronger than you think. Most people don’t even know how enormous is their potential, but that’s okay. If is terrible – than never open it.
You are not disciplined
There are people who constantly rush from one target to another. Today they want to conquer the Everest Mount, but tomorrow their main desire is to open their own karaoke bar. The dream – is a jealous phenomenon that doesn’t allow frivolity and flippancy. You have to be completely focused on your goal if you want to achieve it and to not waste your time with anything else. Otherwise you will waste your time and energy.
You don’t have experience and skills
Dreams don’t come true at once. Their achievement – is a hard work. If you want to achieve something in a particular area, you must study it, learn the skills to gain experience. Of course this requires a lot of time, but no one is born a successful professional. If you want your dream to come true, it is necessary for this to work well on yourself.
You have on your way obstacles
It goes by itself. Of course, on your way to dream there are certain obstacles, otherwise it would have been no dream but a reality. The difference lies in the fact that sometimes in the role of these obstacles are small troubles and sometimes – insurmountable brick walls. Neither the first nor the second should stop you. Obstacles are there for you to prove that your dream is really important for you.
You are afraid of failure
Some people are especially slow towards their dream, because they are afraid that eventually they will fail. Fear – it’s a bad feeling that can turn your entire life, forcing you to give up what makes you happy. Don’t let this happen. Stock up on the determination, confidence and forward – toward your goal!