Popular Psychology. Psychologist’s Advice On A Daily Basis. Love Your Dandelions!
According to an ancient parable, one man was very proud of his magnificent garden. But somehow it sprouted dandelions. The gardener had tried all methods of dealing with them, but the yellow-eyed plants stubbornly fought their way to the flowerbed. In the upset feelings the person wrote a letter to the Department of Agricultural Affairs, explained it all methods of dealing with persistent weeds, and called a panacea. Having examined the request, the Department advised the man …
… Just love dandelions.
We are endlessly fighting with cellulite and suffering because of a flat chest, or overweight, own walling itself in a cocoon of the complexes and insecurities. Instead all this truly “love your dandelions” – delicious roundness, the legs of a radius of curvature or premature wrinkles.
Our view of the interlocutor does not form a torso and legs. Most people pay attention to the smile, the look and voice. What do you think: is attractive the person in whose eyes there is a flashed doom “Do not try to be interested in me, I have crooked teeth and extra 15 pounds of weight?” And pay attention to people’s success, attending sports clubs in the evening after work, leading an interesting life and have success with the opposite sex. They do not reference, they are often not photogenic, but in their eyes is shining excitement of the winner. Their main trump card – …
… Confidence.
Where do I get it? Cases of clinical lack of love for himself are rare, but to resolve them without specialist is problematic. Therapist thoroughly find the root of evil in the past and will work with the patient’s uprooting.
Self-love can raise on its own, the daily mantras like “I am the most tempting and seductive.” The main thing is to believe in them piously.
And it is quite constructive – not just a passive love, but also work on your weaknesses – …
… Work on yourself.
Attend a cosmetologist, dental and fitness course to maintain excellent form. Just imagine how hard it was for our mothers – virtually the only way to get rid of extra pounds was morning run at the school stadium or gym in the manufacturing business at noon, which not relieved of any of pounds, or from harassing the views of colleagues.
What we have today? A unique opportunity to shape our body or mood. We wish to lose weight beautifully? We have at our service belly dancing it’s practiced by young girls and also ladies at deep Balzac’s period). Want to lose weight badly? (I do not mean to lose weight before the full dystrophy, but to force varieties of fitness). Choose a tai chi or callanetics. For those who prefer to lose weight wisely, will prefer yoga. Like most fitness trends, it has no age limit and helps ….
… To be happy.
Fitness has a positive physical and psychological effect. Thrust exercise besides physical might contributes to the production of endorphins - the hormones of joy, a man is not only healthier, but also a little happier.
Love yourself and be happy!
